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Alex Vendittelli
Psychotherapist (UKCP)
London, W1W 7AF
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You appear steady. You get things done. People rely on you. Yet inside it may feel very different. You might feel tense, anxious, or overwhelmed, replaying conversations and questioning your choices. You tell yourself to keep going, but something deeper is asking to be heard, and you are unsure how to begin.

I work with men who seem capable outwardly, yet feel stuck internally. I help you understand the patterns behind anxiety, overthinking, and relationship strain so life feels less pressured and more fulfilling.

Men often seek therapy not because they lack resilience but because they have relied on it for too long. Overthinking, withdrawing, or pushing through once helped you cope, but can later leave you feeling disconnected or trapped.

In sessions, we slow down and name what lies beneath the pressure. We may explore how you learned to handle emotion, what strength or masculinity means to you, and what it has cost to carry things alone. These are not flaws but survival strategies that become choices when brought into awareness.

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