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Counsellor: Interested in joining Men's Counselling Service? Learn more 

GARY Beachwall
Gary Jessop
Accepting new clients
NCPS accredited
Hove, BN3 2AN
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You don't have to carry everything on your own.

If you're reading this, chances are something hasn't felt right for a while.

Maybe work has become relentless. You're feeling burnt out, struggling in your relationship, finding family life difficult, dealing with grief or loss, or simply feeling the weight of everyday life. You might know exactly what's going on, or you may just have a sense that something needs to change.

Many of the men I work with have spent years being the one others rely on. They keep going, put themselves last and tell themselves they'll deal with things later. But "later" often never comes.

Not all loss is about bereavement. Sometimes it's the end of a relationship, a career change, becoming a father, children leaving home, retirement, changes in your health, or letting go of the future you thought you'd have. Life keeps moving, and we don't always give ourselves the time or space to make sense of what we've been through.

There isn't a right or wrong way to come to counselling. Some men arrive knowing exactly what they want to talk about. Others simply know they can't keep carrying things the way they have been. Wherever you are, we'll start there.

Sometimes you just need to get something off your chest. Sometimes you want to untangle your thoughts. Sometimes you simply need someone who will listen without judgement.

That's the space I aim to offer.

Many men choose to begin with a Walk and Talk session. Being outdoors and walking side by side can make those first conversations feel more natural and less intimidating than sitting face to face. Others prefer to meet in my counselling room or online. However we meet, we'll work at a pace that feels right for you.

Alongside my professional training, life has taught me that we all face times when we need someone to listen. Those experiences have shaped the way I work, helping me meet each person with honesty, compassion and without judgement.

People often tell me they find me easy to talk to. I don't believe counselling has to feel formal or intimidating. My aim is to create a relaxed, confidential space where you can be yourself, speak openly and feel genuinely heard.

If you've been thinking about counselling for a while, perhaps this is your sign to take that first step.

I offer a free 15-minute introductory chat where we can talk about what's been going on, answer any questions you have and see whether we're the right fit.

You don't have to have everything figured out before you get in touch.

You don't have to do this on your own anymore.

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